PERFECTION IS THE DISEASE OF A NATION

PERFECTION IS THE DISEASE OF A NATION

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PERFECTION IS THE DISEASE OF A NATION_Flawless

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Stiu ca titlul suna ciudat! Stiu ca aveti un deja-vu! Insa, spre mirarea mea si a voastra, consider ca redactarea acestor reguli de conduita pentru a fi “o lady” este absolut necesara!

⇔ REMINDER: Pentru mine! Pentru tine! Pentru ele! Iata care sunt acestea din punctul meu de vedere!

#1. Don’t kiss & tell! Daca cineva ti s-a confesat cu incredere, mai cu seama o prietena, nu transmite informatia doar ca sa impresionezi, sa barfesti, sa faci conversatie. Cu siguranta e o informatie valoroasa, motiv pentru care cu atat mai mult trebuie sa fii mandra de faptul ca ti-a impartasit-o tocmai tie!

#2. Nu fi ipocrita! Gen: nu iti cumpara Dior daca nu ai ce pune in stomac! Nu purta tot aurul din lume pe tine ca sa arati ceea ce nu esti! Nu te minti singura! Nu te ajuta cu nimic si nici nu iti sustine imaginea pe care o pretinzi!

#3. Fii increzatoare in tine si in propriile forte!

#4. “TE ROG” si “MULTUMESC” au fost, sunt si vor fi la moda!

#5. Cumpara-ti un parfum placut, fin! Ca sa va dau un exemplu elocvent, din cele 5 parfumuri pe care le am acasa, doar unul ma caracterizeaza cu adevarat! L-am descoperit in Italia acum 4 ani, cand am achizitionat niste cosmetice de la Beauty Point din Roma si am primit cadou o mostra. Acea esenta a fost #TheOne inca de atunci.

#6. Pantofii cu toc de 11 cm nu sunt pentru oricine! Decat sa te vada lumea ca te chinui sa mergi pe pantofii stiletto preferati, insa prea inalti, mai bine nu-i purta! Da, se vede! Faptul ca incaltamintea te jeneaza, se vede! Sa nu credeti ca eu n-am pantofi incomozi dar superbi din toate punctele de vedere. Insa ii port doar cand merg foaaarte putin pe jos, eventual la un restaurant unde nu fac decat sa ma asez pe scaun, nicidecum in club, la petreceri sau nunti unde dansez mult.

#7. Recunoaste-ti vina! Fie ca e in relatia de cuplu, fie ca e in relatia cu un coleg de la servici sau chiar la supermarket, daca ai gresit, admite asta! “Imi cer scuze, cred ca v-am dat mai putini bani pe produsele din cos!”, “Scuze, n-am vazut e-mailul in timp util!”, “Stiu ca trebuia sa spal vasele, insa sunt foarte obosita! Le spal, insa dupa ce ma odihnesc putin.”

#8. Numara paharele de vin pe care le bei! Cand crezi ca ai ajuns la limita admisa, opreste-te! Nimic nu e mai groaznic decat sa te imbeti si sa se vada acest lucru!

#9. Fii punctuala! Nimanui din lumea asta nu ii place sa astepte inutil!

#10. Ce tie nu-ti place, altuia nu face! Daca cel de langa tine a facut o greseala, nu rade de el! E de prost-gust, il faci sa se simta prost, si, in fond, nimeni nu e perfect, iar tu stii asta!

#11. Nu te impotmoli in termenul “PERFECTIUNE”! Nimeni din lumea asta nu reprezinta perfectiunea intruchipata! Nici fotomodelele, nici starurile de cinema, nici tu! Cunoaste-ti defectele si accepta-le asa cum sunt! #YouLookDisgusting

#12. Informatia inseamna putere! Daca este vreo combinatie ideala in lumea asta, aceea e frumusetea cu inteligenta. E crunt sa te simti pe dinafara! TV, presa, reviste de specialitate, www.descopera.ro www.ceascadecultura.ro www.historia.ro www.vogue.com – take your pick! Citeste mult, bine si cu rost!

#13. Bunul simt primeaza in orice situatie!

#14. Pe cat posibil, mentine-te in forma! Fie ca te duci la sala, fie ca faci abdomene acasa, fie ca te plimbi prin magazine J ocupa-te de aspectul tau fizic, nu doar prin haine, ci si prin alimentatie si sport. Ideea e sa fii energica si sa te simti bine in pielea ta, nu neaparat sa fii slaba. Tocmai ce vorbeam de increderea in sine!

#15. When in doubt, be well mannered! Nu-ti pierde cumpatul, chiar daca situatia o cere! Nu adresa injurii ca la usa cortului, chiar daca interlocutorul tau o merita cu varf si indesat. Cu totii am trecut prin situatia asta!


I know that the topic is a little odd! I know that is a deja-vu for you! But, I really think that expressing these “flawless rules” all over again is mandatory!

⇔ REMINDER: For me! For you! For them! Here they are, from my point of view!

#1. Don’t kiss & tell! If someone thought that you are trustworthy and told you a secret, especially if she’s a friend of yours, prove them right! Don’t make an entire conversation, don’t gossip that thing with others. You have to be proud that she told you, and only you. For sure, it’s valuable.

#2. Don’t be a hypocrite! Don’t buy Dior from head to toes, if you don’t have anything to eat! Do not wear 10 pounds of gold jewelry on you just to show off! Don’t lie to yourself! It doesn’t help you at all, it doesn’t sustain the image you pretend to have!

#3. Be confident in you!

#4. “PLEASE” and “THANK YOU” are not overrated! They are still fashionable!

#5. Buy yourself a nice perfume! For example, even if I have 5 different bottles of perfume at home, only one gets me completely. I found it in Italy, 4 years ago, when I bought some beauty products from Beauty Point in Rome and I got a sample of it in the bag. That scent was #TheOne ever since.

#6. 4 inches high heels are not for everyone! If you struggle just to walk in those shoes, the others can probably see that too. Don’t wear them just yet! The fact that the shoes are killing you softly, it shows! I have some pair of high heels that are uncomfortable but beautiful. I wear them only when I go somewhere with a car or when, for example, I go out at the restaurant and just sit on the chair, not at weddings and parties where I have to dance.

#7. Admit your mistakes! Even if it’s at home with your partner, or at work with a colleague or at the supermarket. Admit it! “I’m sorry but I think I didn’t give you enough money!”, “Sorry, I haven’t open just yet the Inbox”, “I know that I was supposed to wash the dishes, but I am tired! I’ll wash them, but after I take a nap for a while!”

#8. Count the glasses of wine! When you think you have reached the limit, stop! Nothing is more disgusting that a woman drunk enough to go crazy!

#9. Always be punctual! Nobody likes to wait!

#10. If you don’t like it, don’t do it to anyone! If someone made a mistake, don’t laugh at him/her! It’s tacky, you’ll just make him uncomfortable and, after all, nobody’s perfect and you know it!

#11. Don’t beat yourself up with “PERFECTION”! Nobody is perfect! Nor the models, nor the movie stars, not even you! Be aware of your flaws and embrace them! #YouLookDisgusting

#12. Knowledge is power! If there’s one perfect combination in the world, that’s beauty and intelligence. It’s hard to be left outside when it comes to debate something. TV, newspapers, magazines, www.descopera.ro www.ceascadecultura.ro www.historia.ro www.vogue.com – take your pick! Read a lot!

#13. Common sense comes first!

#14. Be fit! Either you go to the gym, either you work out at home, or even you make your cardio doing shopping all day, you have to take care of your figure! You have to do it through sports, through clothing and by eating healthy. The idea is to be energetic and to feel good in your own skin, not necessarily to be skinny. Read #11 all over again.

#15. When in doubt, be well mannered! Don’t lose it, even if the situation gets you up to your nerve, even if the person you are talking to, totally deserves it! We’ve all been there!

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Love, A.


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